Sharon, 48, never know if orgasms were really true. It was because in her 4 decades of existence, she never have it with any sexual partner.
Apparently, Sharon has anorgasmia - or an inability to orgasm. This has been experienced by five to 10 per cent of women, and a smaller number of men.
“I didn't trust people. I couldn’t relax as I had to feel like I was in control and that I was safe because I didn’t want history repeating itself," she said.
Sharon experienced abuse when she was a child.
Anorgasmia is an umbrella term for subsets that include 'lifelong', where a person cannot climax at all; and 'acquired', when the ability comes and goes. 'Situational' anorgasmia depends on partners and stimuli', and 'generalised' denotes being unable to orgasm in any situation or with any partner, according to Mayo Clinic.
This might be caused by diabetes, multiple sclerosis, gynaecological issues, medication, smoking, drinking and ageing. Anxiety, low-self esteem, feelings of guilt, abuse, and the fear of pregnancy and STIs can also trigger it.
Sharon undergone cognitive behavioural therapy, sex therapy and medication to treat anorgasmia.
It was only when she got 30 when she noticed that she wasn’t having the same sexual experiences as other people.
“I felt embarrassed so I’d fake it. My partners seemed happy so I didn’t want to burst their bubble. I resigned myself to the fact that I wouldn’t orgasm. I didn’t put myself first because I didn’t think I was important because how I saw myself. I thought, at least I’ve had some intimacy," she described.
After conquering her fear, she finally decided to go under a treatment at age 48. Her treatment involves three sessions of counselling and around 90 minutes of intimate massage like stimulation of the breasts, nipples, clitoris, vagina and anus.
It was last July when Sharon finally achieved to have an orgasm with a partner for the first time.
Source: Independent
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